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Great Leaders

7/9/2019

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"A leader takes people where they want to go. A great leader takes people where they don't necessarily want to go, but ought to be." Rosalynn Carter
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When driving through the Badlands of South Dakota, I saw these goats lying on the top of a very step and barren hillside (lower left and upper right). I wondered how they got way up there. It reminded me of Rosalynn Carter's quote about great leaders taking you where you would not otherwise go. That's also what a great coach will do....take you where you would never get to on your own.
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Honoring your values

4/3/2019

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“Transformational change occurs when we shift limiting beliefs, change our perspective and live aligned with life purpose and values.
​Nothing is the same from that point on.”
- the Coaches Training Institute
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In its simplest expression, a fulfilling life is one in which important values are honored. Values are already there. They are not ideals to be worked on or acquired. They are expressed in the living of a person’s life. If important values are NOT being expressed, dissonance will show up. Click here to read more about values and how to uncover your own personal values.

​Another way to uncover your values is to take t
he VIA - Values in Action Assessment. This assessment was developed by Peter Seligman. It highlights 24 character strengths, grouped into six large categories called virtues that consistently emerge across history and culture. It is another quick way to uncover your values. Click here to take the free VIA personal assessment to discover your top values.

What is it like to live in alignment with your values?

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Why get a coach?

3/6/2019

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I love this Ted Talk by Atul Gawande. He speaks about how coaching can help anyone get better at anything. Why? He says because: Coaches are the external eyes and ears that provide a more accurate picture of your reality.

He uses many inspiring examples from his experience as a medical doctor both in the US and in his work with clinics overseas.
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What makes some marriages work and others not?

2/1/2019

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One of the classes in my advanced coach training talked about relationships and how best to coach people around relationship challenges. Some of the content came from John Gottman's book "7 Principals That Make Marriage Work". Apparently, his research applies (with some language modifications) to relationships at work or those with friends and family members - so it's very powerful information.

What's particularly relevant of his research to coaching is that hey says that 69% of the issues in relationships are perpetual - meaning they happen time and time again. Boy what a great thing to work on with your coach. 

Here's a short video by John about his research. If you want more, check out Parts 2-4 or one of his longer videos on YouTube or pick up a copy of his book.
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Thought for the years end

12/20/2018

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It's amazing how time flies. Is it really the end of the year already? This quote is a reminder of how important it is to go after what you really, really want before it's too late. It's one of the primary things we do in coaching...... help people achieve what they desire.
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Never underestimate the value of a Wing(wo)man

9/12/2018

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​Dori Clark once said ‘Never underestimate the power of a “Wingman’. In this case it’s a Wing(wo)man. Jules, my Chihuahua rescue puppy, is always meeting new, interesting people (and dogs). And then, of course, I meet them too. She is so good at making introductions. One of her favorites is the postman. Ok, I don’t yet know his name, but he’s very nice. Usually, however, it’s some random stranger – like the young girl, walking across the Broadway bridge, pictured below or the woman with her baby at Jamison Park.
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I bring this up because it’s so much easier to go places with a “Wing(wo-)man” - someone who is outgoing and can make introductions. If you are a busy professional who avoids going to networking events, because walking into a room full of strangers is overwhelming, why not try enlisting the power of a “Wingman”? 

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What will you commit to?

6/12/2018

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Key ways to advance your career

12/13/2017

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This video highlights some of the key principals we work with in coaching such as:

  • Take the initiative to invest in yourself and your learning.
  • Formulate a vision of what you want and seek it out.
  • Focus on the small wins (so there may be lots of small steps to get there, so celebrate the small wins - my coaching perspective takeaway)
  • If you flip a couple of key assumptions, you can change everything.

But what I love about the video are the great stories she shares. She presents examples of people who have used these principals to achieve amazing financial success doing the work they love. It's certainly worth 18+- min of your time.
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Becoming a recognized expert

9/12/2017

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In this short video, Dorie Clark, a well known author and personal branding expert, talks about a few ways to focus your own personal brand so you can stand out in the crowd. 
​Her book "Stand Out" is filled with case studies, the psychological research behind her views and a deeper explanation of her concepts. She also has some excellent, longer Youtube videos on the topic. Here are a few of my favorite takeaways from "Stand Out".
  • "There is less room today for average performance in a global economy."
  • "It's about solving problems and making a difference in a way that creates value for yourself and others."
  • I love her explanation of Robert Cialdini's 6 steps to persuasion which are:
    1. Reciprocating
    2. Commitment and Consistency
    3. Social Proof
    4. Liking
    5. Authority
    6. Scarcity
  • "When you also focus on how you can help them achieve their goals, you become not just a networker but a trusted friend and valuable colleague."
  • "Always try to give value before you receive it."
  • "....in this world, you are not trying to appeal to everyone, you're just trying to get to the right people." here she is quoting Alan Weiss, but it's a great reminder that we don't have to be everything to everybody.
Dorie Clark's book "Stand Out" is packed full if ideas on how to find your breakthrough idea and then become well know for it. But more importantly, she talks about why this is valuable to your business and your career. I highly recommend her book as well as her Youtube videos. 
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Can proposal writers learn from trial lawyers?

5/12/2017

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​Chris Sant, an ex-commercial litigator, showed us how techniques used by lawyers to persuade juries apply to writing more persuasive proposals.  His powerful presentation was filled with clear examples, and engaging content. Here are a few of my favorite takeaways:
  • It’s the perception not the reality that gets the point across
  • Show. Don’t tell. Show your awards, patents and clients gushing about you.
  • Speak to the jury [client] like a human not in legalese [industry jargon].
  • Make your points memorable.
  • Simplify. Have the confidence to make the point and move on.
  • Rhymes confer extra validity. Do you remember OJ Simpson trial? “If the glove does not fit. You must acquit.”
  • Metaphors are short cuts. They translate new information into experiences that you already have.
Don’t miss your chance to hear Chris speak at the APMP National Conference. Chris Sant, from Chris Sant Consulting, will present at 3 sessions; differentiation, developing content libraries and how to gather intelligence on clients and competitors.  
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    Debbie Crooke, CPCC  blends her 20+ years in business with her coach training to help her clients bust their status quo, reach farther than they would have on their own and do their life on purpose..

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